Sacrifice on you or you sacrifice for others?

How to love one another? One of the characteristics of God's love is : for the benefit of other. It is differ from us, human love usually has a element of self-benefit and it is sort of contract or agreement between 2 parties. For eg: i love u because you care for me, because you did so much for me, because she take good care of me. And isn' that the true, yes, many of us know that to love is to sacrifice...........so, sacrifice on you or you sacrifice or other? ask yourself. Do to other if you want other do to you speaks of you sacrifice for other and other will sacrifice for you.
Our Lord love us to the point of death, and our bro paul in the book of Hebrew 12 beseech us to offer ourself as a living sacrifice, holy and well pleasing to HIM, which is the most reasonable service. How to sacrifice for our GOD? that is to sacrifice on the brethren, our LORD JESUS say that if you pour a cup of water to a young boy, you do it to HIM. How do you know that our HEAVENLY FATHER LOVE US? HE demonstrate HIS LOVE by sacrificing HIS ONLY SON to us that we might be reconcile back to HIM.
Love HIM? keep His commandment and DO IT!
Pray that our Lord will filled our "love-tank" with HIS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE every day. Because HE is LOVE.
Glory be to HIM.